My past three days

Last weekend I went Karaoke with my colleages. We spent about 6 hours at a room having all our 'superb' talented voice out loud. Hehe, It was fun, really really fun. Actually I'd already gone for karaoke for some times with Pakciks, but none of that time got me singing.

"Sorry pakciks, last time memang nak nyanyi dengan korang, tapi kan tak jadi p karaoke last day hari tu... "

Faezah caught us on video, I'll post it later when I got them. Ok~ Exclusive... hehe.

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Just now I met Sakura, with Reef and Leaa. Tapi rasa penat sikit... We are suppose to spend the day at Ulu Yam, but a miscommunication membuatkan semuanya terbantut. Cewah. Maybe next time... Lagipon penat hari ni, semalam kerja seharian...

In 1 week, I like having one day for 'lepak'ing, baring-baring having my day gone in front of TV or computer for the whole day, a 'Hari Malas' I would say. Sunday usually is the day. But having meeting with some old friends were precious.

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Lately banyak certia pasal cerai-cerai. Bukan those I know laa, tapi artis-artis. Sometimes I wonder.... Is 'talak' something yang diorang boleh main sebut-sebut ikut suka hati? Takkan laa they don't really know how the word 'cerai' or 'talak' kan really mean something serious? Ikut sedap mulut kau je nak jatuh talak. Pastu terhegeh-hegeh nak rujuk... Tak malu~ bwekk~

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When you are not listening~!

I am so damn furious with some people who acts like they don't have the sence of hearing or seeing!

Ada mata tengok, ada telinga dengar! It's very weird to have these people actually survived~

Those out there who have responsibilities to the people around you, use your sences wisely. Listen~ It is not difficult to have people not to hate you.

[mode yang benganglah sangat...]

Actually nak cerita pasal pergi Penang last week. Tapi esok laa ye, dah tengah malam ni...

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I met Haidi and Rifqah last nite. Penat tiba-tiba pasal bercakap tanpa henti. Actually saya ni pendiam orangnya, tapi bila berjumpa dan you find that I talk and talk and talk and keep on talking, that should be a great thing. That means I'm quite comfortable with you.

;-) Tiba-tiba rasa dapat motivasi kembali selepas berjumpa kawan-kawan lama. Tapi Peje akan bertukar kerja kat Penang, kuranglah majoriti pakcik yang ada kat Selangor lepas ni...

Happy 23rd birthday untuk En.Nine yang semakin tua hari ni~! Nine adalah salah seorang pakcik, dan antara yang banyak persamaan dengan saya. Saya rasa la... Banyak bende yang kita sama-sama suka. Haha..

Tak lupa juga happy belated birthday to Cik Rif and Cik Fatin (30 Oct)

Dan super belated birthday to a very old friend of mine, Cik Sarah (21 Oct) Believe it or not, this year means saya dah kawan dengan Sarah 17-18 years.

Happy?

Am I happy?

I was happy... But currently I am falling to a down point.

"Adat orang bekerja" = stress

Haha. If only it's not true. Is there any jobs out there which satisfying? Saya pun tak tahu... Maybe I am lack of motivation, marilah seorang gadis cantik masuk ke department saya dan menjadi assistant saya. I really need one. LoL~

Tapi kalau perempuan cantik macam mana pun bila masuk department saya sure turns into a witch punya rupa lepas beberapa bulan bekerja.

Just be grateful... motivasi saya setakat ni. :-)

Kahwin kahwin kahwin

Semua orang pun bercakap pasal kahwin...

Why rushing? Saya sendiri pun tak paham. Kerja memberikan impak yang besar jugak rupanya.

"Bila nak kahwin?"

Arh, stress mendengar soalan tu. Kenapa perlu kahwin sekarang? Baru je 23... Tapi satu keluarga dah bertanya? Excited semacam. Masa kakak saya kahwin, sempat juga mereka bermesyuarat plan untuk majlis perkahwinan saya... Cincin pun sudah ada~ Sigh... Mungkin ini akibatnya lahir sebagai lelaki pertama dalam keluarga ayah saya yang juga pertama dalam keluarga. Macam kerabat diraja pulak, putera makhota kena kahwin cepat2. Owh, mungkin saya perlu buat majlis tari menari menantikan Cinderella muncul bersama kereta pumpkin. Arh, moden sikit, mungkin tak naik kereta pumpkin, naik kereta BMW mungkin. Wah, kaya betul cik si pari-pari memberikan Cinderella BMW... [apa saya merepek ni...?]

Tipulah kalau saya kata saya tak pernah terpikir pun nak kahwin, tapi saya rasa saya perlu sedikit masa. Banyak benda yang saya perlu fikirkan... Kalau lah saya ada girlfriend sekali pun, saya tak ada laa nak kenalkan kepada seluruh dunia unless saya sendiri dah yakin yang si dia lah pilihan saya. cewah~

I was wrong, I shouldn't wait giving you up... impossible love. ;-)

Datuk Nicol Ann David...

bagus-bagus, she deserved it, maybe someday patut dia jadi Tan Sri :)

Datuk Sheila Majid :)

Ok jugak, lately she's been the ambassador for IJN for quite some time.

Tapi... Datuk Shah Rukh Khan...??

aRH, kenapa macam susah nak diterima akal ni? Ape jasa dia kepada negara? Kepada rakyat Malaysia? Ooowh, mungkin dia telah menghiburkan penonton-penonton TV? Tapi kenapa tak bagi Rosham Nor ke... Heh? Konpius sekejap...

Lepas ni saya tak terkejot laa kalau ada Datuk Britney Spears...

Atau mungkin Tan Sri Michael Jacson... wah...

Maybe the government should review on this Datukship matter. Macam kelakar je jadinya... Saya nak jadi Datuk pun dah jadi segan. Haha~

Nilai sebuah perkataan

Tahu tak perkataan apa paling mahal kat dunia ni?

"Sorry...."

Dulu perkataan tu tak pernah wujud dalam kamus hidup saya. Sama ada diungkapkan sendiri perkataan tu, atau menerimanya daripada orang lain, tak pernah pun dibuat secara ikhlas. Mungkin ada jugak disebut masa "Maaf zahir batin" dalam kad-kad raya, tapi sangatlah berbeza perasaan itu.

Tapi mujur ada seseorang yang mengajar saya erti kemaafan itu. Perkataan 'maaf' itu mula menjadi satu tabiat, dengan lebih ikhlas I would say... Dia kata, tak pernah rugi apa pun kalau kita yang mintak maaf. Memang betul, dan sejak itu, saya mula mengenal erti 'kalah' ataupun 'mengalah'... Even kadang-kadang saya rasa saya betul, tapi tetap rasa saya perlu minta maaf.

Tapi lama-lama, bila 'maaf' itu menjadi rutin biasa, nilai perkataan tu macam dah tak ada. Saya pun macam dah penat nak mengalah dah. Selalu jugak tanya kat diri sendiri, kenapa mesti saya yang mengalah bila obviously saya betul? Bukan nak rasa ego, kalau saya rasa saya salah, saya mintak maaf lah, tapi bila dah orang lain buat salah, kenapa perlu saya?

Memang tak rugi apa bila meminta maaf... Tapi tak rugi kah perkataan itu bila nilai perkataan tu bagaikan tiada bagi sesetengah orang?

Selamat hari raya aidilfitri, maaf zahir batin.

Aidilfitri in Singapore

As usual, I went to Singapore for Aidilfitri, spent 3 night there this year.

What was so special this year's Aidilfitri was that we had Kak Anna and Abg Ayie joining us for the first time in 2 years, and what else, we had AMIRUL as well! Hip hip hurray!

Geylang has been the loyal welcomer for us every raya, a place where we can shop till 5 in the morning for baju raya, or if we already had one, then maybe you can shop for baju raya next year, or maybe 2 years ahead...? Oh well, who cares? But this was a bit dissapointing, not much were offered. Baru ingat nak shopping baju raya untuk raya ke-2 tapi tak jumpa idaman hati. Kecewa [sikit lega jugak jugak tak lah keluar duit... lupa nak bitau, this year is the first one after keje, so kene spend sendiri laaa... no longer ada Mak Bapak Finance MBF]

As Kak Anna & Abg Ayie only had 1 day raya with us [Kak Sabiqiah - Abg Ayie's sister is getting enggaged on the 2nd raya], we had to rush and complete all the houses of Baba's siblings, 7 of then in 1 day. Amazingly we completed it earlier, at 12 midnight. Selalunya pukul 3 - 4 pagi baru habis raya... Huhu... Ajaib.

Since dah habis raya on the first day, 2nd day was filled with shopping time. Pegi Orchard road, tak sangka pulak semua macam murah-murah. Sangatlah teruja ke sana dan ke sini membeli baju. Oh, Zali was so lucky being the last one in the family untuk lahir... Dia dapat PSP. Sangatlah jeles walaupun minat bermain game dah tak ada. Murah laa Singapore, next time mahu bawak extra money untuk shopping, sori yerr adik-adik and anak-anak sedare, maybe next time takleh naik lagi duit raya, nak shopping lah... haha.

Raya ke3... dah balik. Penat...

Raya ke4, which is today... morning got the chance to go raya with some schoolmates, Mas, Sidah and Siti. Semua pon sembang nak kahwin, isk isk... Then i went to Bota, singgah raya rumah Nizam before heading to Nazul's house. Heheh. Gembira... =)

Anyway, Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri to everyone, doesn't matter who you are, what race are you. Maaf Zahir Batin... Sorry for any misbehaved or whatever which hurts anyone of you. Aidilfitri is all about forgiveness.

Ramadhan

Many misunderstood that Ramadhan is all about fasting, abstaining self from food and drinks at day time, but actuall Ramadhan is more than that. It's the month for the Muslims to re-evaluate themselves on their lives.


During Ramadhan, every part of the body should be retrained. The toungue must be restrained from backbiting, or gossip~ The eyes must be restrained from unlawful or things that are not nice or allowed to be seen =), well understood. The hand must be restrained from touching or taking anything that does not belong to it. The feet also must be restrained from going to sinful places. In this case, every part of the body is actually fasting.


The Muslims believe that in this holy month, the devils are locked in hell, and every sinful actions done during this month comes from the humans themselves and that is why, Ramadhan is the perfect month to practice from doing such things.


Aha, one other thing. In Ramadhan, we as Muslims should pay our 'Zakat' which will goes to those who needed them. =) I've paid mine for the first time, anda bila lagi? Cewah.


So, happy Ramadhan to every one of you. May this month will be the best one out of all, Insyallah =)

16 September 2008

Oh tidak, saya bukan nak cerita pasal Anwar Ibrahim yang kononnya nak jadi Perdana Menteri pada hari ini, yang kenyataannya tidak~

Tapi 16 September adalah hari jadi saya.

Hari jadi bukanlah hari raya. Hari jadi boleh dikatakan "your day", ataupun "my day". Pada hari "my day" inilah kita tahu siapa sebenarnye yang mengingati hari-hari sebegini.

Jadi terima kasih kepada kawan-kawan yang mengingati saya pada hari ini. Yang sempat wish, call tengah-tengah malam walau saya mamai dan pagi-pagi tak ingat siapa yang call =p soreee... yang hantar sms, emails, testimonials on friendster, yang bagi hadiah.

Dan yang bermakna sekali adalah terima kasih buat semua kakak-kakak dan adik saya yang menemani saya pada hari yang bermakna :-p It's a perfect way to celebrate "my day"

Tak lupa untuk pakcik-pakcik yang ada kat Selangor yang menemani saya celebrate birthday saya lebih awal last weekend di Putrajaya, seharian suntuk.

Seronok bila kita tahu ada yang mengingati, sedih bila sedar ada yang lupa... dan juga serba salah bila ada yang ingat tapi kita yang lupa.

Selamat hari jadi ke-23 jaffrey =)